Time to “Opt Out” of Sex Class?

Stop_SignMost sex ed in public schools has nothing to do with promoting  health. It does not promote abstinence from sex and it does not protect teens from STDs. Sex ed goes far beyond teaching the methods of contraception. In many cases, it is all about grooming immature students into a sexualized life-style, while their brains are developing.

When school starts, there will be a stack of forms and consents for parents to sign. There may be a passive consent form asking your permission to teach your child sex ed, without specifying the name of the program, content or intent. If you do not sign it, your child will be sent to sex class. Only if you tell them to “Opt Out” your child, will they be spared.

Parents (and taxpayers) need to call their school districts  and ask to view the entire contents of all sex education curricula being used. Make sure they give you the teacher’s manual, student workbooks, handouts, DVDs and posters.

Obviously, this will take time so you need to plan several hours, or do it as a team with each adult viewing different pieces of the curricula. Take notes. Write down page numbers and quotes from the pages. When you see something disturbing, get a partner to witness it and write it down, verbatim.

It is important for you to document what you see from the actual curricula, otherwise you will be accused of making it up.

One only has to see these programs and lessons for themselves, to understand that they are all about promoting sex, sexual rights, and increasing the profit margins of the sex and abortion industries.

The public schools are failing to teach our kids how to read, write, or understand math, science and history. Teachers often complain that they cannot teach students after they have had sex class. No wonder!

Students are being groomed for sex and dumbed down into sexual machines that cannot think for themselves. What better way to control the masses?

The following quotes are from Making Proud Choices! and should be a wake-up call for any reasonable parent or taxpayer. Making Proud Choices! teaches 11-13 year old middle school student how to make sex with condoms fun and pleasurable. It calls itself a “Safer-Sex Approach,” but the sexual foreplay they suggest would spread bodily fluids and STDs such as Syphilis, Herpes and HPV, which are transmitted skin to skin.

Making Proud Choices! does not teach reproduction, abstinence, or the benefits of marriage. It is all about promoting sex under the guise of condoms and STD prevention.

The following lesson is all about normalizing sex with and among minor children and encouraging tolerance towards those who want to have sex. Notice that the idea of “protected sex” is paramount. Abstinence is totally missing from this lesson.

Making Proud Choices!: Attitude statements about condom and contraception use for 6th Grade/Middle School (pg. 70)

1. Attitude: “It would be embarrassing to go to the drug store to get birth control.”

Answer: “(Even though it may be embarrassing, you have to work through it because a pregnancy can be more embarrassing.)”

 2. Attitude: “Using condoms would kill the mood and ruin sexual pleasure.”

Answer: “(Condoms can be fun and pleasurable if you know the skills to make them that way.)”

3. Attitude: “Girls who carry condoms are easy/slutty.”

Answer: “(Girls who carry condoms are smart, responsible, proud and safe.)”

4. Attitude: “Refusing to have sex if my partner will not use a condom is hard to do.”

Answer: “(Refusing unsafe sex is the proud responsible thing to do.)”

5.  Attitude: “It would be easy to discuss contraceptive methods and condom use with my boyfriend or girlfriend.

Answer: “(It is easy when your mind is made up and you know why you want to be safe.)”

Making Proud Choices!: “HOW TO MAKE CONDOMS FUN AND PLEASURABLE” 6th Grade & Middle School Activity B Procedure for Teachers (p.150)

Rational: “Helping participants see how they can make condom use fun and pleasurable for themselves and their partners encourages consistent use and a sense of pride and responsibility.”

Teachers are told to “Add the following ideas to the list if they [students] were not already mentioned by the participants.”

  • “Sex is more fun when condoms are used because…
  • You can use condoms as a method of foreplay.
  • You can think up sexual fantasy using condoms.
  • You can act sexy/sensual when putting condoms on.
  • You can hide one on your body and ask your partner to find it.
  • You can tease each other sexually while putting on the condom.
  • You can have fun putting one on our partner while pretending you are different people or in different situations.
  • You feel more relaxed and can really enjoy yourself.
  • Condoms make erections last longer.

Following are more Making Proud Choices! pages in the teacher manual:

Pg. 38-40 Teachers “norm” the classroom and get kids to agree not to talk about what happens in class when they leave.

Pg. 60  Abstinence is the same as safer sex.

Pg. 62 Pros about contraception, but no cons listed.

Pg. 66 Even for students who practice abstinence, they are told to use birth control as a back up.

Pg. 70, 85, 91 Instructions about fun, pleasurable sexual foreplay with condoms. This is beyond teaching “about” contraception and outside most state laws governing sex ed.

Pg. 73 Poster of STDs. HPV is missing.  Medically Inaccurate Info

Pg. 74, 8 & 10 Students are told that “anyone can get STDs.” Students who abstain will not get STDs.  Medically Inaccurate Info

Pg. 75 Condoms protect from STDs. Medically Inaccurate Info

Pg. 76-92  Condom skills classes to break down natural defenses about sex and condoms. Teaches about “kiddie condoms” for little penises.

Pg. 91 Students are warned not to drink alcohol or take drugs, but taught sexual foreplay.

Pg. 108 Green, Yellow and Red Light Behaviors. Some of the Green and Yellow light behaviors, which many teens will think they can handle, include: 

  • Having sex with a person who is having sex with other people
    • Oral sex on a guy with a condom
    • Anal sex with a condom
    • Mutual masturbation
    • Vaginal sex with a condom
    • Oral sex on a girl using a dental dam
    • Having sex with multiple partners and using a condom (group sex and/or serial partners)
    • Having sex with only one person (monogamous) [this normalizes serial monogamy]

This should get any parent or taxpayer started! There are many more pages throughout the curriculum to discover and expose. This means there is no way that schools can just not teach a lesson. It is polluted throughout.

These programs do not include anything that would teach your child to avoid risky behaviors, yet they are being used in schools, where Johnny can’t read, write, do math or understand basic science.

Even if your kids are grown, what about your grandchildren? What about your taxes spent to promote these programs.

What will you do? You are the last, but should be the first, defender of your children. You may still have the power to opt out your child from sex ed. Why not? If just 15 families in each school opted their children out of sex ed it would send a huge message to the school district.

If you feel it would embarrass your child to be outside the sex class, then you may be the one with the problem. Your child will be far more influenced by the content of these type classes than by going to the library or study hall.

You are the last defense for your children. If you don’t Parent Up for them now, no one else will.

Check out: Sex, Lies and Hook Ups: A Parent’s Guide for Fighting Back

Shelby Knox Exposed!

sexed-planned-parenthood-lila-roseReports are coming in about tonight’s Shelby Knox event in Charleston, South Carolina. We are not surprised.

It was NOT a full house by any means, but swarming with folks from the Planned Parenthood Network. One woman gushed,

“You won’t find more Progressives any place else!”

The event was orchestrated by the League of Women Voters to influence the Charleston County School Board elections in the fall. There are 5 open seats for the November elections.

One reporter asked Shelby Knox, “Do you think it’s loving to confirm someone in behavior that may be harmful to them?” Shelby paused and stumbled around and didn’t really answer the question. She was really taken aback!

The Education of Shelby Knox, her award winning documentary, included a lot of footage bashing True Love Waits, a respected faith-based abstinence-until-marriage education program used mostly in Baptist Churches.

If you did not get to read our recent article exposing Shelby Knox, here it is: http://wp.me/p3Jbg1-kX  

Again, Shelby Knox and the Planned Parenthood Network are expected to bash faith-based programs that promote abstinence until marriage and faithfulness within marriage. That’s just who they are.

But, to bash Evidence-based, Science-based abstinence until marriage education that has been proven effective and approved by US Health and Human Services is simply ludicrous.

Beware Planned Parenthood Sex Education in your schools. Consider the source!

Stop Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Sex Ed in South Carolina!

Stop_SignCitizens of South Carolina! Contact your House of Representative members on the Education Committee tell them to vote NO! on H3435.

NEXT TUESDAY, the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Network (New Morning Foundation, Tell Them SC, Advocates for Youth, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, ACLU and many others) are pushing the SC House Education Committee to    pass H3435, their so-called Healthy Youth Amendment.

It should be called the SC Sexual Foreplay Education Amendment!!

This Healthy Youth Amendment, which failed last year, is right out of the Planned Parenthood and SIECUS playbook. It will require that anyone teaching sex education in public schools be “certified” by the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS controlled powers of the state and federal government.

This means that sexual foreplay education programs like Making Proud Choices!, Making a Difference!, Safer Choices, Be Proud! Be Responsible!, and Teen Outreach Program will be the Law in every public school of the state.

All of these programs are found on the Planned Parenthood website!

Even if you do not have children in the public schools, your taxes are paying for these dangerous adolescent brain altering programs to be mandated statewide.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will ultimately CENSOR programs that teach an abstinence-until-marriage message from having access to public middle and high school students.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will PROMOTE Alfred Kinsey’s brand of “medically accurate” and “age appropriate” sex education which promotes consensual sexual activity among and with minors.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will require that girls and boys be taught together and learn how to use condoms together.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will make it virtually impossible for students in the public schools to learn about the benefits of abstinence until marriage, about the life skills to be successful at abstinence until marriage, and it will prevent them from learning about the benefits of MARRIAGE, AT ALL. Marriage has already been taken out of the SC Health Standards for public schools because it might offend someone!

This past Wednesday, Tell Them SC and the New Morning Foundation bombarded legislators with emails demanding that they pass H3435.

If you really care about the future of SC and the nation AND do not want your taxes being used to promote pornographic sex education to children and teens, under the guise of Comprehensive or so-called Safe Sex Education, then please contact your House Education Committee members by next Tuesday’s vote.

For more info on sexual foreplay ed programs CURRENTLY in your public schools: ExposeSexEdNow.com

Pro-Life? Choose Heritage Keepers® Abstinence Education!

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Are you pro-life? Are you one of the millions praying about, and protesting the devastating impacts of abortion and the destruction of millions of innocent children and families by Roe v Wade over the past forty years?

Are you supporting and working in your local Pregnancy Care Centers to give women the option to choose life rather than abortion?

We are glad you are out there. We need you, more than ever, to help save our nation and stop the carnage.

The sheeple of America have been lead down the path of “sexual freedom” for so long that they do not recognize real freedom anymore.

For too long, the consequences of sex outside of marriage have enslaved generations to believe that multiple sexual partners, hook-ups, abortion, STDs, hormonal birth control, cohabitation-not-marriage, adultery, divorce, dysfunctional relationships, unrelated family members, domestic violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, illiterate and unskilled workers, generational poverty, and unstoppable entitlements are just normal and the best that we can ever expect out of life is Chaotic Family Formation.

To make matters worse, prevailing solutions for all of these social ills is to push more and more of the same in order to justify the insanity we all endure. More and more Safe Sex programs that lead more and more generations to experience the same enslavement as their parents.

That way, no one feels left out, guilty, or weird.

As pro-life advocates, we know that there is a much better way to live our lives. And, Pregnancy Care Centers help young women and their partners every day to make life affirming decisions, not only for their children, but for their own futures.

But, what about children who are now just entering puberty and will face similar life changing decisions? Many of them will be parents in just a few years!

How can we help them avoid the risky behaviors that the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS and Obamacare Networks are pushing them towards and that have been institutionalized for them in our schools?

While pro-life efforts are successfully defeating Planned Parenthood on local and state levels, we must also support efforts to teach children about:

Healthy Family Formation; abstinence from sexual activity until marriage and fidelity within marriage. We must teach children the character-based life skills they need to restore the Life Script that science and experience have proven, over and over, works for a successful life.

Delay sex until marriage, get an education, get a good job and become self-sufficient, establish a healthy, faithful marriage, and then have and raise children within marriage.

Pass it down, generation to generation.

This is the Life Script that was promoted by social service agencies for decades, and then dropped out of fear that it would offend someone. It is the Life Script that is ordained by God, has worked for centuries, and that built America.

So, why do so many organizations in the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Network, seek to dismantle the proven Life Script in order to destroy their children’s future?

Are they trying to destroy humanity around the world from within?

What behaviors are taught to persuade our youth to choose temporary sexual fun and pleasure, and ultimately destruction, over a successful, fulfilling family life?

Pro-life efforts must promote life and liberty for all age groups, including our adolescents, teens and young adults. They are in danger of becoming sexually active and forced to make unnecessary decisions about birth control, pregnancies, and disease. Decisions that can wait until they are fully mature and ready for a life-long marriage, if they follow the Life Script.

Abstinence-until Marriage and Fidelity-within-Marriage is the only way to teach our children the Life Script. There are many good programs available, but Heritage Keepers® is the only one – so far – that has made it to the list of Evidence-based Teen Pregnancy Prevention programs sanctioned by the Federal government.

This is important because now there is at least one program out of 31 on the US HHS list that is truly pro-family, pro-abstinence, pro-marriage, and promotes the Life Script. Heritage Keepers®, is the science-based Abstinence Education program developed by Heritage Community Services (Heritage).

Heritage is a “spin-off” of the Lowcountry Pregnancy Center. Both organizations, based in Charleston, SC were founded by Anne Badgley, a visionary and pro-family advocate. After ten years of building the Lowcountry Pregnancy Center, Badgley decided that teens needed to hear compelling, science-based reasons to abstain from sexual activity until marriage and pursue healthy marriages.

Now, almost twenty-years after starting Heritage, Heritage Keepers® is the first and only abstinence-until-marriage program to be nationally recognized by the Federal government.

A year after the program, students initiated sexual activity at a rate that is 67% lower than students not receiving the program.

Heritage Keepers® is  proven effective and until 2 years ago was not listed on the US HHS website of evidence-based Teen Pregnancy Prevention Programs. This is “the list” of programs that school districts refer to when looking for an evidence-based program for your children.

What happened 2 years ago? Research and evaluations convinced US HHS that Heritage Keepers® should be added to the list and they “cracked the Holy Grail!” Now, it is the only program on the list that is truly abstinence-until-marriage.

Heritage Keepers® is not ashamed to teach the benefits of abstinence and the benefits of marriage to teens.

All of the other programs that are being funded with your tax money, may claim to be “abstinence-only” or “abstinence-based” but are either abstinence-until-you-don’t-want-to-anymore or blatantly safe sex/sexual foreplay programs promoted by the Planned Parenthood Network. They also, may not teach marriage, at all.

Seriously, consider Heritage Keepers® for your community, school district, or pregnancy center! Shouldn’t every adolescent, teen, young adult and singles get a strong compelling abstinence-until-marriage education program before they hear anything else?

How else will they know about healthy family formation, rather than so-called planned parenthood or family planning?

Think and act holistically about the fight to end abortion. We need to engage teens before they have sex, get pregnant or even get to the point of considering abortion. Remember those on the front lines teaching kids that abstinence until marriage is the best reproductive sexual health message.

Promote abstinence-until-marriage education as the best way for youth to rebel against the establishment (Planned Parenthood/SIECUS/Obamacare) and seek success by following the proven Life Script.

Without quality, evidence-based abstinence education in your schools and community, future generations are doomed to repeat the errors of the past fifty years.  CHAOS.

Safe Sex Ed: Prevents Sexual Abuse and Pornography?

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In the USA and globally, there has been a noticeable shift in the propaganda promoting Safe Sex/Sexual Foreplay Education. It is moving away from typical pregnancy prevention and towards claiming that such education would prevent child sexual abuse and pornography addiction.

Really? Show me the research!

While it is true that prepubescent minors cannot get pregnant, they are becoming new targets for the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS sexualization agenda. Beginning at Kindergarten, 5 year old children are being taught about  consensual and non-consensual sexual activity.

AS IF ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH OTHERS IS ACCEPTABLE!

There are many reasons that children are considered minors under the law. One, is to protect them from pedophiles, predators, and sexual exploitation.

Now, such promoters of perversion are pushing legislation that will lower the age of consent for sex and make pedophilia legal as an alternative life choice. Our children are becoming targets WITHOUT legal protection.

Normalizing sexual foreplay among, and with, children and encouraging sexual exploration, spontaneous sexual fun and pleasure, along with imagining sexual fantasies does not seem like a well thought out way to protect and prevent child sexual abuse or pornography.

Rather, it sounds like grooming kids for sex.

The Planned Parenthood and SIECUS Networks (including Obamacare) must be thrilled, as they anticipate a surge in business over the next decade. Getting kids hooked on sex at even younger ages will certainly increase the likelihood that they will get pregnant, thus increasing the demand for abortions and birth control.

Who cares about the STDs?! Who really even cares about the children?

Are they nothing more than sex toys?

Most parents are alarmed when they find out that their 11 year old prepubescent child has been exposed to instructions on how to pleasure each others genitals, regain an erection, find “little boy” condoms in the store, make condom use fun and pleasurable, and how to keep parents from knowing what is discussed in sex class. By “norming” the class on Day 1, students are “sworn” to secrecy under the guise of confidentiality and respect for others.

And, most parents are even more alarmed at the thought that their child might be sexually molested, assaulted, or exploited. The Penn State sexual abuse scandal exposed decades of sexual abuse that will haunt the victims for the rest of their lives.

Beware! The Planned Parenthood and SIECUS Networks are exploiting these parental fears to actually gain access to their children. After years of anti-bullying campaigns to increase tolerance for various sexual proclivities, they are now pushing their agenda forward by making consensual sex the norm for all ages and relationships.

This ideology has its roots in Alfred Kinsey and his sexology research on babies at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute. And, “Planned Parenthood’s former medical director, Dr. Mary Calderone, was also a director of [SIECUS] the Sex Information and Education Council of the United States, the sex-ed provider launched by the Kinsey Institute in 1964 with seed money provided by Playboy. And we wonder why our sex-ed classes are so graphic.”

Exposing children and teens to sexuality information, images, stimulation, and assault causes physical and emotional damage for a lifetime.

It is reprehensible, and should be criminal, that our government, who is in bed with the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Networks, is funding programs that prey on children, under the guise of health or sex education or the so-called prevention of sexual abuse and pornography addiction.

The only solution is for parents, and the adults who really care about children, to become educated, opt out of safe sex classes, and stop funding them with their taxes.

Further readingSex, Lies and Hook Ups: A Parent’s Guide for Fighting Back! and Sex, Lies and Hook Ups: A Teen’s Guide for Fighting Back!

What’s an abstinence, anyway?

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Did you know that abstinence is like a condom?

It is apparently a method or device you can use to prevent pregnancy.

On page 66 of Making Proud Choices!, a lesson on methods of birth control, abstinence is listed.

“It’s important to have a backup method in case you decide to stop using abstinence in order to be able to protect yourself from pregnancy and STDs, including HIV.”

Are 11-13 year old minors supposed to understand from this statement that if an abstinence fails they should use a condom?

Or, are they supposed to think one is as good as the other?

Wow! I wonder if Obamacare would cover the cost of an abstinence, just like they do condoms, the pill, Plan B and abortions?

“Rights to Sex” TRUMP “Right to Life”

InALifeSafe Sex advocates say that humans should have the Right to Sex, but if that sexual encounter results in a pregnancy, that child does not have a Right to Life. Does any of this make sense to you? Sex is no longer the way that humans make babies or for marital intimacy, it is solely for hedonistic entertainment.

Safe Sex advocates support and teach many of the programs found on the Planned Parenthood and SIECUS websites. If pressed, their Networks claim that they DO teach abstinence in their programs. That they teach it at the beginning of every sex class!  Just before they teach minors that it is healthy and normal for kids their age to know how to sexually stimulate each others genitals.

Safe Sex-only programs like Making a Difference!, Making Proud Choices!, Pono Choices!, Be Proud! Be Responsible!, It’s Your Game, and Teen Outreach Program, are creating chaos, not only in AZ, CAHI, OH, OR, KS, MS, NC, ND, NY, SC, TN, TX, UT, but in the lives of our children and their families across the nation. Many of these programs have been in our schools for decades. However, under the Obama administration, they have been given unfettered access and funding, which is now increasing public exposure and scrutiny.

The basic premise of Safe Sex-only Education is that sexual activity, exploration and engagement is a Human Right from birth. (Reisman, Grossman) Sexual relationships are not to be controlled, but to be hotly pursued, because they are part of being human. In their minds, to do otherwise would hinder “healthy” human growth and development. Sex is a human right, and anything goes, at any age, with anyone, with anything, and with any gender. Whatever.

With this extreme Safe Sex ideology in mind, is it any wonder that proponents of Safe Sex for minors and school age teens, are lobbying state legislators to mandate Safe Sex-only education? And, they are demanding that taxpayers fund the government infrastructure, public school systems and universities that will further institutionalize it in our culture.

Is it any wonder that these same Safe Sex advocates view abstinence-until-marriage education programs as outdated, discriminatory, and a violation of the Sexual Rights every human should be entitled? This is why evidence-based abstinence-until-marriage programs, like Heritage Keepers®, are demonized and outlawed in many states.

Teaching kids to abstain from sexual activity, to wait until marriage, and to form their families within a life-long, mutually monogamous, faithful relationship, commonly known as marriage, is just ridiculous in their minds. Sex is considered a “sacred” Human Rights issue worthy of Laws and Regulations to protect it.

Unless parents and faith leaders stand up to stop this, our children and our nation are racing towards absolute chaos.

To postpone some of the chaos, Planned Parenthood and Obamacare have teamed up, again, to control any pesky pregnancies that might result from all of the Safe Sex being taught. This is why taxpayers are now forced to fund contraception, hormonal birth control, and abortions as yet, another  entitlement program.

But, hormones and abortion cannot stop STDs and HIV. In fact, there is evidence that hormonal birth control makes it easier for women to contract STDs! Other than abstinence, correct and consistent condom use is the only method that has been effective at reducing, but not eliminating, the transmission of HIV and some STDs. Even then, there is no way to measure correct and consistent condom use on a large scale. Therefore, there is no real way to prove, or disprove, whether a Safe Sex program really works, or not.

But that doesn’t matter, as long as access to students is not denied.

Sex education is no longer about teaching reproductive health so that teens understand their bodies. It is not really about teaching kids how to use contraception and birth control anymore, either. It is about how to reduce HIV/STDs by teaching kids how to have fun and pleasurable safe sex experiences while using condoms and dental dams. Otherwise, the masses (our children and grandchildren) that they say must be taught about their Sexual Rights, will not use condoms to keep HIV/STDs under control.

What about the STDs that condoms are less effective at preventing, like HPV, Herpes, and Syphilis? Those are considered normal, acceptable risks. Besides, more government entitlements are available through Big Pharma for the HPV vaccine, Herpes drugs and antibiotics. Forget the cervical cancer and the infertility that results from these normal STDs.

If we the people, do not stop this madness, then America is over. There has never been a culture that thrived under these circumstances. They have all fallen and disappeared.

It only takes one person in each school district, community, state, or church to stand up and expose the Safe Sex agenda. Even normal liberals do not want their children exposed to this kind of pornographic indoctrination.

Most of us are in denial or blind, until we see it for ourselves. Find out what is in your child’s school. Show it to other parents. Read it out loud to elected officials.

Ask them if this is good enough for their children and their friends.