Condom Failure in South Carolina

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Mary S. McLellan, MS, SRAS   ~  Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist

Robert Swain MS HIA

 

Health experts in South Carolina (SC) are finally showing concern about the high rates of STDs/HIV among teens. According to GoUpstate.com,

In one-year, the rate of HIV/AIDS jumped 11% among 15-19 year olds.

And, SC ranks in the top ten states for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HIV/AIDS.

This data is surprising since HIV/AIDS rates are generally reported as declining. What are we to think? 

Regardless of its validity, you should know that the “health experts” mentioned in this article are members of the National Coalition to Support Sexuality Education, a coalition run by SIECUS, which is a spin-off of Planned Parenthood. They are in league with over three hundred national Sexperts who promote Sexual Rights in our schools under the guise of Comprehensive Sexuality Education. (CSE).

Teaching students to delay sex until their brains are mature and they are self-sufficient adults is the best sexual health message, regardless of their sexual history or sexual orientation. However, that is not a Sexpert’s primary goal. Delaying sex just does not fit the Sexual Rights narrative, nor the sex industries’ lucrative business model. They want to get kids hooked on sex at an early age so that they become lifelong customers.

Sexual Rights advocates cannot admit that CSE or ‘contraception-only sex ed’ fails to protect our children from the consequences of sex, mainly STDs/HIV. Rather, they shift the blame to a lack of “access to health care services and affordability of health care services.” Really? Using vulnerable minors to politicize the STD/HIV crisis in SC is absolutely shameless. And for what? More condom distribution centers!

The problem is not health services; it is CSE in our schools. CSE is neither comprehensive nor educational. It is Sexual Rights indoctrination that normalizes and promotes sexual activity for minors. Students are legal minors and cannot consent to sex, so why are adults teaching them how to have sex?

Besides, many SC high school students are not even using condoms. GoUpstate.com reports that, “Only 59 percent of [sexually active] high school students report (2015) using a condom the last time they had sex.” This data does not even factor whether the condoms were used correctly or consistently.

If 59 percent were the only relative data point, this might sounds OK. But, the report neglects to inform us that condom use in SC peaked in 2005 at 67 percent and it has been in decline ever since! Most of this decline occurred during the Obama years when sexually explicit, pornographic, CSE programs began receiving more than 90 percent of all federal sex ed funding. Teaching kids the pleasures of sex and expecting them to care about their future health is ludicrous.

And, for those 41 percent that used a condom the last time they had sex, condoms are not protective enough. Exaggerating condom effectiveness or allowing students to believe that condoms will protect them from STDs is deceitful. Such medically inaccurate information gives students false assurance that they are protected and it encourages them to take more risks.

In addition to failed condom education, we reported last fall that a U.S. Health and Human Services replication study of  “evidence-based” CSE programs reveals that most were ineffective. The full review is in the American Journal of Public Health (October 2016). One of their conclusions was,

“While several of the evaluations did show positive outcomes, most of the programs had small or insignificant impacts on adolescent behavior.”

Valerie Huber, Founder/CEO of WeAscend.org, a national Sexual Risk Avoidance (SRA) policy organization, nailed it in her summary of the findings:

“Compared with their peers who were in the program, teens in some TPP-funded projects were more likely to begin having sex, more likely to engage in oral sex, and more likely to get pregnant. In fact, more than 80% of students in these programs fared either worse or no better than their peers who were not in the program.”

Those ignoring the devastating results of CSE programs are not competent to teach our children. To date, none of the failed CSE programs have been pulled from SC schools. Parents and taxpayers must demand that they be removed and replaced with proven-effective Sexual Risk Avoidance programs.

If CSE programs were seat belts, they would have been recalled years ago!

Comprehensive Sex Ed: Total Waste of Our Money!

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By Mary S McLellan, SRAS (Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist)

Do you ever wonder why our culture is more sexualized and pornified than eight years ago?

Nearly a BILLION DOLLAR$ of our money was funneled to Comprehensive Sexuality Education under the Obama administration. 


Comprehensive Sexuality Education is not about science, biology, or reproduction. It is about teaching minor children the pleasures of sex, Sexual Rights, and that sexual risks are no big deal. 

Most so-called Comprehensive Sexuality Education downplays STDs and solves every pregnancy with abortion. It is total indoctrination into a hedonistic lifestyle. Maybe that’s why condom use has flat-lined for twenty-years! (CDC YRBS)

Using terms like “medically accurate” and “age appropriate” are red flags when defined by Planned Parenthood, Advocates For Youth, or Obama’s complicit media. 

Today’s “Comprehensive” Sexuality Education leaves out the many benefits of and skills needed to delay sex until one is educated, self-sufficient, and ready to form a healthy family. That’s not comprehensive enough for most parents and grandparents, who want only quality education for their children. 

We need to defund Obama’s Sexual Rights Agenda so that America’s children can thrive and enjoy the freedoms they deserve. 

Learn more: StopCSE.org and WeAscend.org

The Sexual Rights Cash Cow

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by Mary S. McLellan, MS, SRAS ~ Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist

 

cow-cashHave you ever felt queasy about those sex programs in your child’s school or health clinic? Maybe you feel that your child is too young to know about oral, anal, and vaginal sex, and how lube can make sex more fun…but you say nothing.

Besides, all of the other parents are letting strangers teach their children about sex, so why shouldn’t you?

Or, maybe you caved, because Educrats and Sexperts have convinced you that they know better than you what is best for your child?

Your gut is right and you should have trusted it! Some of the Teen Pregnancy Prevention Programs promoted and funded with your tax dollars were re-evaluated over the past five years and FAILED miserably. Buried in the HHS website is the evidence that these programs fared no better than general health classes at reducing teen sex or increasing condom use. In fact, some of the programs increased teen sex and pregnancies!

Thanks to Ascend CEO Valerie Huber, these evaluations released in July 2016 are exposed in this press release. Ascend is the only credentialing organization in the U.S. that trains professionals in Sexual Risk Avoidance (SRA), a public health model for optimal ascend-infographic-on-csesexual health. You can read more in Obama’s promiscuous sex-ed program a failure. Also, click on the Infographic (right) for a quick look or here for a more detailed summary of the findings.

Parents must find out if these failed Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE) programs are still in their schools and community organizations: Carrera Program (Children’s Aid Society), Cuidate, It’s Your Game: Keep It Real, PHAT! Abstinence-Only Intervention (Promoting Health Among Teens), Reducing the Risk, Safer Sex, Seventeen Days, Teen Outreach Program, and BART (Becoming A Responsible Teen).

We need a massive recall of these programs!

Don’t be duped by so-called “adaptations” of old or failed programs. Adaptations are simply a slick move by HHS to revamp the same failed sex programs without evaluating them. If the core is rotten, the entire product is disgusting!

While, most of the HHS Teen Pregnancy Prevention Programs are a scam, there is one exception. Heritage Keepers® Abstinence Education is the only authentic Sexual Risk Avoidance program that has been proven effective at increasing abstinence among teens. Heritage Keepers® promotes abstinence-outside-of-marriage. After one year, Heritage Keepers® students initiated sexual activity at a rate that is 67% lower than students not receiving the program.

Today, we have generations of indoctrinated millennials and those younger who think that aberrant sexual lifestyles are the norm. They have been taught that everyone, regardless of age, has the right to sex, as long as they have consent.

Really? Sexual predators groom their victims to consent to sex.

American parents must wake up. You have been used and abused by the Sexual Rights Agenda. You are their Cash Cow. They have taken your money, your children, and your marriages.

Now, they want to take away your future.

 

Sex Ed: What can I get away with today?

RedYellowGreenLightsWhat are kids learning about avoiding risky behaviors?

Are we teaching them that some risks are worth the consequences?

This is not how prevention  approaches the use of tobacco, drugs, and alcohol. Parents and teachers use every scientific argument known to be directive and adamant about abstaining from these substances and there are laws designed to prevent youth and adults from engaging or promoting such risky behaviors. This approach is the reason that tobacco use among teens has dramatically decreased over the past twenty-years.

Yet, when risky behaviors pertain to sexual activity, parents, teachers, and even law enforcement, become ambivalent and provide wishy-washy guidance, at best, leaving young people exposed to the consequences of sex without boundaries. Why do we shrink back from using every medically accurate, scientific fact to teach our teens and young adults how to abstain and set clear boundaries for appropriate sexual activity?

Why are we, in fact, doing just the opposite?

Many parents tell us that they feel like hypocrites telling their teens to delay sex, even until marriage, because they did not do so. This is exactly how societies go from bad to worse! Adults need to know that this is no longer about them and their sexual history! They have a chance to effect their child’s future. They need to refocus their attention onto what is best for their children and their peers. They need to give them the best sexual health messages, because that’s what most good parents do.

Many Comprehensive Health Ed programs in our schools add-on pregnancy and STD prevention curricula found on the Planned Parenthood website. These curricula teach sexual foreplay techniques with condoms to 11-16 year old teens, under the guise of HIV/STD prevention. Rather than teach clear, protective boundaries, they teach what teens/adults can get away with in our culture. With the clear and unambiguous boundaries of marriage and monogamous life-long fidelity rapidly disappearing from our culture, Sexual Rights have become the predominant message.

However, even with hormonal birth control and condoms, sexual activity still leads to predictable consequences such as pregnancy, disease, and life-long regret. Planned Parenthood, and other abortion services, benefit financially when the inevitable happens. No wonder they push these programs in our schools.

For at least the past three decades, Sex Ed in our schools, military, and colleges has abandoned the science of reproduction, and the medical and social benefits of abstinence and pregnancy prevention. Sex Ed is almost entirely about how to reduce the risks of sex, while still having “erotic, fun, and pleasurable” sex with condoms.

Sex education is an integral part of a worldwide Sexual Rights Agenda that fails to protect the rights of its victims to be really safe and free from harm.

While adults can legally make decisions about their sexual risks, minors and teens cannot, and they deserve legal and social protections from this dangerous agenda and from the adults who indulge in it.

Just two decades ago, military and civilian personnel were effectively trained on sexual harassment using actual court cases, so that they would know the clear boundaries they must follow to stay out of trouble. In recent years, Red, Yellow and Green Light trainings deal with tolerating the sexual behaviors of others and how far a person can go without violating “consent.” Or, how to obtain “consent” without being charged with harassment, sexual abuse or rape.

The lessons taught are about how to avoid the consequences of behavior, not about how to avoid the behavior leading to the consequences. This strategy has never worked for alcohol, drugs, and tobacco use.

Why do we insanely insist that it will work for out-of-bounds sexual activity?

Click on the pictures below. These are very similar sex lessons taught to students, under the guise of HIV Prevention. These sex lessons are known as Red, Yellow and Green Light Activities, found in Making A Difference! (pg. 120) for middle schools and in Be Proud! Be Responsible! (pg. 54) for high schools. Both curricula are produced by Select Media and are provided “FREE” to school districts and “Safe Sex-only” agencies around the nation with Federal and State grants using our tax money.

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The purported goal of these lessons is to encourage the use of condoms (protected sex) while engaging in so-called “safe sex.” All of these activities are openly discussed in class as “safe” or “unsafe” ways to express sexual feelings. The Yellow Light activities are presented as “safe,” as long as condoms are used consistently and correctly at every incidence of sex. Even some of the Green Light activities are suspect, and the Red Light activities are really not off limits, as long as “protection” is used.

Even the CDC has stopped using percent effectiveness of condoms against HIV/STD transmission in their most recent Fact Sheet. They only claim that condoms are “highly effective.” However, condoms are only effective if used consistently and correctly during every act of vaginal sexual intercourse. The CDC warns about anal sex, yet promotes condoms for this activity, especially for gay and bisexual men.

Factor in normal human behavior, and the consequences from engaging in these sexual activities are just a “roll of the dice.” One does not get to choose which consequence(s) – STDs, pregnancy, depression, school failure, suicide, or nothing – they would prefer to endure.

“Better to be safe, than sorry” use to be the prevailing wisdom.

Now it is simply, “What can I get away with!”

This is not wisdom and it protects no one.

Find out if any of these sexual foreplay programs are in your child’s school district: Making A Difference!, Making Proud Choices!, Be Proud! Be Responsible!, Safer Choices, It’s Your Game, Draw the Line/Respect the Line, Teen Outreach Program, and Promoting Health Among Teens.

If you need help, contact us at ExposeSexEd@gmail.com. Let us know what is in your school district. If you don’t know, find out! That’s what good parents do!

 

Have You Been Groomed for Sex?

MPC CurriculumAre you shocked anymore by reports of teachers having sex with students? After all, aren’t teachers doing what they’ve been taught is normal and expected throughout their own teen years, and college, as well as in their “professional” duties?

Why should they even get in trouble?

Daily, teachers having sex with students are caught and those promoting sex-without-boundaries in our public schools are hiding it any longer. In fact, they use it to deflect attention from the Sexual Foreplay  they teach our children.

By overwhelming us with daily reports, they can make us jaded to the realities, paralyzed with fear and/or fall deeper into denial about what our children are learning at such a young age.

And, it’s working! In some districts, more parents, teachers, school administrators, legislators, and even faith leaders are saying, “So, What?” or “Teens are going to have sex and there’s nothing we can do about it. We must teach them how to use condoms and take birth control, so they will at least be safe.”

You have been groomed, just like your children, to believe that every teen is having sex, to accept it as normal, to even participate in it, and then to move on.

Yet, according to the CDC (P 14), over 72% of teens (15-17) nationally surveyed have never had sex.

Every teen is NOT DOING IT!

Just like pedophiles, who target weak and vulnerable kids, the government, the media and the Planned Parenthood Networks have spent the last 40+ years targeting states and school districts desperate for money.

They also targeted worried parents who want to protect their kids. Most of today’s parents have never known a day without Planned Parenthood/SIECUS, Family Planning, Safe Sex Education, and abortion. They do not know a better way to do life, either!

Now, after decades of grooming, we are told by the “experts” that it is medically essential to teach kids how to have “fun and pleasurable” “safe sex” as part of so-called health education. One would think that sex ed is more essential than math, English or science!

According to the authorities at Planned Parenthood/SIECUS and their networks, promoting sexually explicit instruction to children is the only way to protect them from sexual perverts! Really?

Beware: Be shocked, but do nothing, is what the SexPerts want.

It’s all part of grooming a culture for sex.

A concerned parent gave us the following pages from Making Proud Choices!, one of the most sexually explicit programs in the nation, for 11-13 year old middle school students. It is fast becoming the standard for sex ed programs in public school districts.

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Do you want 11-13 year old boys and girls practicing these steps for condoms use? STD prevention is not mentioned.

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“foreplay,” “act sexy/sensual,” “hide one on your body,” “tease each other,” “have fun,” “pretend you are a different people,” “you feel more relaxed and can really enjoy yourself.”

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Do you really want your 11-13 year old daughter taught how to help her boyfriend get and keep an erection? This is not STD prevention!

 

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Is this supposed to be abstinence-based? There is no mention of delaying sex, no avoidance of the situation. This page only pushes being “spontaneous,” “no need to wait,” “spontaneity and pleasure of condom use,” “romantic,” and “eroticize condom use.”

Do you really want teachers telling your children to do this behind your back?

Do you really want teachers telling your children to do this behind your back? If students did this at school, they would be suspended or expelled.

Organizations like Advocates for Youth, the Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, and others in the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Sex Education Networks have received billions of Federal and State taxpayer dollars to groom state legislators and school districts into pushing Safe Sex-Only education.

They do this by training and indoctrinating (grooming) college students and teachers to accept child sex as a normal part of growing up. Then they use biased definitions for “medical accuracy” and “age appropriateness” based on their ideology to mandate only their brand of sex ed in the schools.

Abstinence until marriage and marriage as an ideal context for sex have been censored from many school districts in favor of Safe Sex-Only education.

Legislation has recently been introduced in some states that will mandate teaching minors (as young as 4 year olds) that touch/sex is not OK, IF it makes them uncomfortable.

IF? They are minors! What IF they are being groomed to like it? This legislation is being disguised as “sexual abuse and assault prevention education.” It is directly from the National Sexuality Education Standards authored by…Planned Parenthood, SIECUS, Advocates for Youth and the CDC. These are “Common Core Standards” for Safe Sex education. 

Minors should be protected from predators and pedophiles regardless of “consent.” They are being groomed!

Finally, these organizations give millions of dollars to poor states and school districts for “FREE” training and resources in Safe Sex-only programs. For example, a school district in North Carolina, that received $4 million to promote Making Proud Choices!, pays students $100 to complete the program.

None of these programs, (Making a Difference!, Be Proud! Be Responsible!, Safer Choices, and Teen Outreach Program) limit their content to reproduction, rather they primarily teach about the fun and pleasures of sex with condoms.

We must stop these programs at the source, which includes Federal and State funding and access to students through Laws and Standards – and replace them with Evidence-based programs that focus on the skills and benefits of forming healthy families within marriage. Otherwise, families will continue to be chaotically formed.

What will you do? You, the adults, are supposed to protect children. Let’s get serious about exposing and stopping these programs and their predators!

Exposed: “Making Proud Choices!”

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Beware!!! Just because a sex education program claims to teach “abstinence-first” or be “abstinence-based” does not make it so.

The Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Networks in SC, NC, TX, HI, AZ, KS, NY, FL, WA, CA, OH, OR etc. are teaching “Making Proud Choices!” (or it’s little brother: Pono Choices!) in public schools and claim that it promotes abstinence. This is what Comprehensive Sex Education looks like. It is Sexual Foreplay Education designed to alter your child’s developing brain.

“Making Proud Choices!” (MPC) does not teach middle school students (11-13 year olds MINORS) about MARRIAGE, so where is the context for sex? Until you want to?

Without MARRIAGE as the context for sex, there are no boundaries for sex.

MORE MPC FACTS:

  • Cover page: MPC never claims to be abstinence program. It is a “Safer-Sex Approach to Teen Pregnancy, STDs & HIV.” Yet, advocates will tell school districts and parents that it is an abstinence-first program.
  • MPC is listed on the Planned Parenthood website for sex ed curricula. It has been in many states for decades under the guise of Comprehensive Sex Education. Other programs also listed and in our schools are Making A Difference, Safer Choices and Be Proud, Be Responsible, It’s Your Game. Keep it Real and Teen Outreach Program.
  • MPC is not about teaching students to abstain and it does not mention marriage as the healthiest context for sexual activity. By definition, MPC teaches students how to engage in so-called “Safe” Sexual Foreplay and Sexual Intercourse.
  • Dictionary Definition of Foreplay: sexual stimulation of one’s partner, usually as a prelude to sexual intercourse.
  • “Foreplay” is even mentioned on page 150. See page above.

MPC on page 149:

  • MPC teaches more than sexual foreplay. Here MPC is teaching students that sexual intercourse is encouraged and expected.
  • Discussions about relaxation and how to keep an erection. All of the following is high risk for transmitting STDs.
  • What the girl (YOUR DAUGHTER/GRANDDAUGHTER) should do. Encouraging girls to be participate in “sexual arousal, rolling condom on, intercourse, orgasm, holding onto rim, removing condom and relaxation. She can also buy condoms and have them ready.”
  • If the boy “loses his erection after putting on a condom and before intercourse…have partner take off condom, continue playing and stimulating on another, relax, and enjoy the fun. After awhile, put a new condom on as part of the play.”
  • Teacher says, “Remember and practice these steps so that you can make a proud choice and use condoms every time you have sex.”

MPC. Pg. 150-153 How to Make Condoms Fun and Pleasurable

MPC has nothing to do with encouraging abstinence. It has everything to do with encouraging students to experiment with sex.

  • Page 150 Rationale: “Helping participants see how they can make condom use fun and pleasurable for themselves and their partners encourages consistent use and a sense of pride and responsibility.”
  • Introduces foreplay activities. (150)
  • Techniques for sexual foreplay with condoms (151) These activities are high risk for transmitting STDs skin to skin.
  • Encouraging seductive sex talk between minors. Joking about the sexual activities. Sex is just a recreational sport.
  • All about EMPHASIZING fun and pleasure. (151)
  • Pg. 152 #7 & 8: Teaching students how to be spontaneous. This is the OPPOSITE of teaching self-control, abstinence, and avoiding situations that are risky for sexual activity.“No need to wait”

    “Eroticize condom use with partner. (Make it sexy)”

  • After this lesson, the sex teacher is supposed to read this summary found on pg. 153.  Remember, these are minors or very young teens in your schools.

 

“Once you and your partner both agree to use condoms, do something positive and fun.

Go to the store together. Buy lots of different brands and colors.

Plan a special day when you can experiment. Just talking about how you’ll use all of those condoms can be a turn on. Remember, the proud and responsible thing to do it to always use latex condoms if you have sex.”

 EXPOSED!

Stop Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Sex Ed in South Carolina!

Stop_SignCitizens of South Carolina! Contact your House of Representative members on the Education Committee tell them to vote NO! on H3435.

NEXT TUESDAY, the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS Network (New Morning Foundation, Tell Them SC, Advocates for Youth, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, ACLU and many others) are pushing the SC House Education Committee to    pass H3435, their so-called Healthy Youth Amendment.

It should be called the SC Sexual Foreplay Education Amendment!!

This Healthy Youth Amendment, which failed last year, is right out of the Planned Parenthood and SIECUS playbook. It will require that anyone teaching sex education in public schools be “certified” by the Planned Parenthood/SIECUS controlled powers of the state and federal government.

This means that sexual foreplay education programs like Making Proud Choices!, Making a Difference!, Safer Choices, Be Proud! Be Responsible!, and Teen Outreach Program will be the Law in every public school of the state.

All of these programs are found on the Planned Parenthood website!

Even if you do not have children in the public schools, your taxes are paying for these dangerous adolescent brain altering programs to be mandated statewide.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will ultimately CENSOR programs that teach an abstinence-until-marriage message from having access to public middle and high school students.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will PROMOTE Alfred Kinsey’s brand of “medically accurate” and “age appropriate” sex education which promotes consensual sexual activity among and with minors.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will require that girls and boys be taught together and learn how to use condoms together.

–If passed in its current form, H3435 will make it virtually impossible for students in the public schools to learn about the benefits of abstinence until marriage, about the life skills to be successful at abstinence until marriage, and it will prevent them from learning about the benefits of MARRIAGE, AT ALL. Marriage has already been taken out of the SC Health Standards for public schools because it might offend someone!

This past Wednesday, Tell Them SC and the New Morning Foundation bombarded legislators with emails demanding that they pass H3435.

If you really care about the future of SC and the nation AND do not want your taxes being used to promote pornographic sex education to children and teens, under the guise of Comprehensive or so-called Safe Sex Education, then please contact your House Education Committee members by next Tuesday’s vote.

For more info on sexual foreplay ed programs CURRENTLY in your public schools: ExposeSexEdNow.com